豆瓣网友:There was a survey once.A people when asked,if they could know in advance would they want to know the exact day of their death.% of them,said no.I always kind of leaned,towards the other %.I thought,it would be of liberating.Knowing,how much time,we had left to work with.It turns out,it's not.曾经有一项调查,一千名被调查者被问及是否愿意提前知道自己的确切死亡日期,%的人答案是否定的。我本以为我更倾向于剩下的%。因为我觉得知道自己的生命还剩多少,将会是一种解脱。但其实,我不是。,导演对说:"爱人之间处久了难免会互相伤害,那不是不爱,是太爱了。"我却是是学建筑的,不过你知道,这世道多乱呢,我们这些做学问的安不下心来。最好的丈夫就是让妻子享尽荣华富贵的丈夫;最好的情人就是随叫随到,而且每天要给我惊喜!也是杨子曦写得。我想,一把茶壶,茶叶在茶壶里泡过一段时间,即使茶水被喝光了,即使茶叶被倒出来了,茶气还是在的。北京是个大茶壶。太多性情中人象茶叶似的在北京泡过,即使性情被耗没了,即使人可能也死掉了,但是人气还在,仿佛茶气。